My best friend, Mike is a fan of the movie, "How To Be A Player". The movie is a Bill Bellamy, late 90s comedy vehicle that details of day in the life of the 'player', the main character, Dray. Dray is a ladies man: a man (or woman) who maintains several romantic relationships at the same time. Mike is determined to live his live in the same, irresponsible manner. He usually takes these woman, who he meets on online dating sites, on  a series of inexpensive romantic vacations. The inexpensive vacations are usually to places like Las Vegas, Jamacia and Hawaii and designed to generate intense romantic interest from his prospective mate. As a result, since Mike is unemployed, they end up financially supporting until he's "back on his feet", which seems to never happen…..